Religion
Journey to Freedom
All sorts of people are ready to save our soul-not least among them being those who would plunder it. Being set free from religion is a process that unfolds to us as we contemplate the saviors who have supposedly come to our rescue. All of them pose as our friends, and few of them will settle for anything less than submission and servitude.
Absolute freedom maddens them.
You see, religion socializes us. By that I mean it puts us into a group of people where now we belong. We are family, we have identity, we are accepted. I follow the rules and they approve of me. I break the rules and they chastise me (for my own good, of course). This process is not unique to religion; it is the most basic description of how society operates. We become so dependent on the group, which has now become our reference point for what is right and wrong, that our very self becomes a reflection of the group's values and beliefs. In fact, our self-worth is measured by our perception of what the group thinks of us.
The process of socialization, then, is the means whereby we learn the rules of the "in club" and then adjust our lives accordingly.
Religion's socialization process is lethal. It not only offers us the acceptance and affections of a specific group of people, it also offers us the acceptance and affection of God. We become secure in our religious sense of self and vigorously join with the others in defending the fundamentals of our worldview. This is what much of our Christian education is about... a certain percentage of Sunday School classes, sermons, doctrine courses and seminars are not as much about pursuit of truth as they are about religious socialization.
The acceptance and affection of God offered to us by religious socialization come with high stakes. Any rejection of this religious group's values and behavioral expectations will bring down upon us the wrath and rejection of not only the group but also God.
To become free people is to unleash the indignation of religion.
We must be clear that the journey to freedom is at times a bleak and lonely path, one that offers us few of the familiar comforts that came with religion. We are left to ourselves to discover our true salvation, and we are often confronted by the animosity of those who find our freedom a threat to their religious tranquility.
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Religion like that is simply not good enough for me.
Thoughts?
hugs and kisses,
DSW
All sorts of people are ready to save our soul-not least among them being those who would plunder it. Being set free from religion is a process that unfolds to us as we contemplate the saviors who have supposedly come to our rescue. All of them pose as our friends, and few of them will settle for anything less than submission and servitude.
Absolute freedom maddens them.
You see, religion socializes us. By that I mean it puts us into a group of people where now we belong. We are family, we have identity, we are accepted. I follow the rules and they approve of me. I break the rules and they chastise me (for my own good, of course). This process is not unique to religion; it is the most basic description of how society operates. We become so dependent on the group, which has now become our reference point for what is right and wrong, that our very self becomes a reflection of the group's values and beliefs. In fact, our self-worth is measured by our perception of what the group thinks of us.
The process of socialization, then, is the means whereby we learn the rules of the "in club" and then adjust our lives accordingly.
Religion's socialization process is lethal. It not only offers us the acceptance and affections of a specific group of people, it also offers us the acceptance and affection of God. We become secure in our religious sense of self and vigorously join with the others in defending the fundamentals of our worldview. This is what much of our Christian education is about... a certain percentage of Sunday School classes, sermons, doctrine courses and seminars are not as much about pursuit of truth as they are about religious socialization.
The acceptance and affection of God offered to us by religious socialization come with high stakes. Any rejection of this religious group's values and behavioral expectations will bring down upon us the wrath and rejection of not only the group but also God.
To become free people is to unleash the indignation of religion.
We must be clear that the journey to freedom is at times a bleak and lonely path, one that offers us few of the familiar comforts that came with religion. We are left to ourselves to discover our true salvation, and we are often confronted by the animosity of those who find our freedom a threat to their religious tranquility.
***
Religion like that is simply not good enough for me.
Thoughts?
hugs and kisses,
DSW
posted by DSW at
8:14 PM
7 Comments:
A much better post than the previous. Much of my church experience has been this way. But I wonder if there is any way to escape it... because suppose you and I were to create our own church... wouldn't those traditionalist church bastards then feel like they were the ones who had to conform, and that they werent quite welcome if they didn't change to our worldview? I guess in the end were all just damn fundamentalists, but in our own unique way.
THoughts?
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Jonas, at 8:30 PM
I think most of us non-traditional pricks have been fighting against something. And I think that something closely relates to freedom. So yes I do think that would venture out on our own just to create something that does the same socialization to others as was done to us.
If somehow we could embrace the idea of freedom AND to take that notion even further to embrace the idea that not everyone approaches, views, experiences and trusts Jesus the same way - and that it is not up to us to make them see it our way.
I mean that will be one difficult task, but acceptance, trust and irrefutable-gift-love are the qualities that should define Christianity.
I feel there is far too much criticism versus freedom. And it may be that the participation we have had in Christianity has been in a jail-like experience that has taught us to be critical because it is our only avenue of freedom. I hope to explore genuine freedom now and in the future.
We'll see what happens
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DSW, at 2:57 PM
In the mess of it all, the traditional church still led me to ultimate freedom... and it continues to lead many into "freedom" everyday because God still back it up even though I shudder at it. Thank God we all dont have to woship Him in the same way, yet at the same time I'm enjoying the privilege of having my own brain.
Happy "day before the day".
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Jonas, at 1:23 PM
This blogger has officially died. RIP DSW.
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Jonas, at 1:12 AM
Its officail... I post more to this persons website each month than they do.
Perhaps JC could resurrect him from the dead.
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Jonas, at 2:33 PM
did u disappear from the blogosphere?
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Anonymous, at 2:31 AM
you know dave every time i read one of your posts i start of thinking were is he comeing from here and then when you get to the end i relize all your doing is taking an idea and making it clear good work keep it up
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